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RELATIONSHIPS, PSYCHOLOGY, SELF-IMPROVEMENT, LIFE LESSONS

4 Reasons Why You Should Reach Out to Your Old Friends

Family is forever, but friends are far better

CreatedByDaphne
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2 min readJan 31, 2022
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Friendships are the most common profound relationships on the planet. On average, people make about 400 friends in a lifetime, but stay connected with only a handful. These valuable relationships are often stronger than bloodlines. We all crave acceptance and belonging to a sense of community. Friendships play a special role in contributing to happiness.

Being rejected, ghosted, or dumped by a previously potential partner obviously hurts. There are billions of songs and movies about that. Heartbreak can also be felt through losing a friendship. It feels scary to be vulnerable and open to potential lifelong relationships. Here’s why you can reach out to form and build friendships.

They need you too

Perhaps you’re going through a harder time than usual caused by a romantic breakup, lack of social life, mental health, etc. and you’re considering reaching out to your friends for help. You are not a burden. Reach out to people you like and want a friendship with. You never know what someone else is going through. There’s a chance your friend may benefit from your company more…

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CreatedByDaphne
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I am a Digital Marketing Director. I love my dog more than anything. My favourite colour is grey. I drive a Jeep Wrangler.

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